Ease into comfort with this incredible anal desensitizing cream. Perfect for beginners to anal play, this specially formulated lotion gently numbs and desensitizes the rectal area, making the experience more comfortable and enjoyable for both partners. It's odorless and tasteless, washes off easily, and can be used with latex condoms.
NOw I know what they say- you shouldn't use desensitizers because if something is wrong you won't feel it. Well, I found when I was starting out, what was wrong was that I couldn't relax. And that led to tearing. This product helped me relax more because I wasn't as afraid. I recommend actually using in conjunction with an actual anal relaxer (I prefer "Organic adventure anal spray for women"- in fact, that and lube is all I actually need now that I'm used to anal). This product doesn't make you go completely numb as some people say this type of products does- if you are too rough, you will still feel it. But it allows you to start the deed and get into it without pain and anxiety. One problem I do have though is sometimes I run the risk of it being a little messier (minor fluid leaking), especially after an enema, because I am a little less aware of bowel control.. :/
Overall, I do recommend it though until anal is more comfortable for you.